Talk! Talk! Talk! Talk! Talk!

Communication is so basic but so necessary. Neither one of you can read each other’s mind during sex, so speak up if there is something that you want that he is not delivering. There are tons of ways to verbalize it if you feel a little tongue-tied, like “It’s so hot when you…” or “I’d love it if you’d try…” expressing what you feel will allow you to get what you want. Don’t’ be scared