Category: The Importance Of Foreplay

I have mentioned this is a previous post; trying something new sexually is good for you and for your relationship. Some sexual issues stem from sexual boredom, no variety. You don’t have to do something distasteful but try something fun and exciting. Sometime a new position, different lighting, candles, or sex toys will shake things up. Try to bring each other to orgasm during foreplay instead of intercourse maybe something new for you both. Be brave and try something that you have been thinking about; it might stimulate your minds as well as your bodies. Enjoy

This is such a turn on, looking at each other facial expression during foreplay and sex is stimulating. Open your eyes and look at your partner. Many couples feel closer after sharing such an intimate experience. Looking at each other pushes couples to grow sexually by confronting their sexual self. Looking your partner in the eyes when you have an orgasm intensifies the pleasure; don’t be afraid to look.

Don’t be afraid to tell your, husband or wife, what feels good; he or she will not know if that’s the right spot or move this way or that. Give a moan or groan makes some noise to signal you like that even talk if that’s your pleasure. Everyone likes to be touch differently, and your husband or wife needs to know your pleasure point. Who says that women are socially quiet during the sex; many couples complain they don’t know what type of touch feels good to their partner and want to know if what they are doing is working. Giving your partner pleasure also helps you build sexual self- confidence. Make sure you provide feedback during the lovemaking, as well as afterward on what you liked. Don’t be afraid to demonstrate the moves you enjoy to your partner if they can’t understand what you’re asking.

Don’t skip foreplay, again you are not in a race and there is no need to rush; lovemaking is an art and this is your chance to work your masterpiece. This is the opportunity to be desired, sought after, and pleasured by your partner. Don’t be selfish, take turns giving and receiving foreplay; this represents the part of the sexual script where both of you are taking turns pleasuring one another. Couples who skip foreplay do a disservice to their relationship because you miss out on the opportunity to learn what you like sexually. This is also the opportunity to let your request be made known, and tell your partner what you desire and to have the type of sex you want. Oral or manual stimulation represent good options for foreplay (your desire). If you are not currently engaging in foreplay with your husband or wife, consider discussing the subject outside the bedroom as an idea you would like to explore. 

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Start with a Kiss

I failed to mention that before you can start the foreplay communication is key. Remember, intimacy does not start when you enter the bedroom it starts throughout the day. With a phone call, text message, love note in the lunch; start the fire early in the day for the anticipation of the evening to come.

Let the fire blaze, slow kissing is very stimulating, there’s nothing more exciting than starting your lovemaking with a good kiss. Start by holding your partners face in your hands, look him or her in the eyes; savor the moment then kiss away. Don’t rush, take your time and feel the sensation as your body begins to respond to the kiss. Kissing helps to get you aroused and prepare the body to move right into intercourse. You would be surprised how many couples skip this step. Men who struggle with erection difficulties or arousal issues should pay particular attention to this step as it helps get you ready for sex. Kissing also helps reduce anxiety as it relaxes you to move right into more intimate and sexual touching.