Husbands and Wives found it hard at times to have spontaneous sex. If you work, have children, own a business, or just doing things pertaining to life than it can be difficult to come home and have Sex. You cannot have great sex with things running through your mind; what am I cooking for dinner, I need to do a load of laundry before bed. STOP, and Relax your MIND. Don’t be afraid to schedule time together for sex. We all have a hectic schedule, lets slow things down, and Meet in the Be Room.