It disturbs me when I hear married couples say their husband or wife is not a good lover. It takes two to tangle and if one of you is saying this about the other, then both of you are to blame. If you are not getting the satisfaction in the bedroom you desire, then maybe you both need to rethink your strategy. Are you both not expressing what you want and if so STOP doing things the same way that is boring? Change things up; LET YOUR REQUEST BE MADE KNOW. You don’t have to re-event the wheel; however, your love-making should be pleasing to each other. Take your time, don’t rush, and find out what each other like. ( It’s never too late) Wives don’t be selfish thinking your husband has to make the first move, you initiate. And husbands don’t be shy tell your wife what you like. Learn to be passionate and patient about your love life, again this is not a race; savor the moment it’s worth it.