Don’t skip foreplay, again you are not in a race and there is no need to rush; lovemaking is an art and this is your chance to work your masterpiece. This is the opportunity to be desired, sought after, and pleasured by your partner. Don’t be selfish, take turns giving and receiving foreplay; this represents the part of the sexual script where both of you are taking turns pleasuring one another. Couples who skip foreplay do a disservice to their relationship because you miss out on the opportunity to learn what you like sexually. This is also the opportunity to let your request be made known, and tell your partner what you desire and to have the type of sex you want. Oral or manual stimulation represent good options for foreplay (your desire). If you are not currently engaging in foreplay with your husband or wife, consider discussing the subject outside the bedroom as an idea you would like to explore.