I would like to share some personal information on how we started writing this blog. When we got married, there were no rule-books to tell us what our marriage would be like. Although books have been written how many of us will take the time to learn how to be a partner or please our partner. We think it is just getting in the bed having sex and that is the end. (For some)
Throughout my life I have always been fascinated with the human body (God is amazing) and sexuality on how the body responds to pleasure. What I found is before we can give our bodies to one another we must learn our bodies for ourselves.
Early in my marriage, my husband and I had some difference in our pleasures. We both were not expressive in communicating what we wanted from each other or how to approach the subject to start a conversation on what we wanted sexually. Although the sex was good, it was not great and how could we make it great. As our marriage mature we were able to talk about the pleasures we wanted from each other. Talking about sex came with some difficulty for me because I was uncomfortable; however, my husband was not. Now this did not happen overnight and we had been together for a length of time; nonetheless, we were both open for change. Now because of the changes we were willing to make we are both better partners.
This blog is for open-minded individuals that do not have the playbook on sex. Our interest change as we get older and having sex the same way all the time can lead to boredom, and then no sex. Do not be afraid to go to the bookstore together and pick out literature to read that will open your mind to new things. I am always willing to try something new. My husband loves when I buy new literature because I read it in bed (Stimulating) he says.
How do you approach the conversation that you are not having great sex to your partner after being together for so long? We would love to hear from you and join in on the conversation for information.
LoveBeingMe
