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Appreciation

Every now and then, you want to hear the words job well done. There is nothing wrong with wanting someone to recognize your hard work or work in general. Well, the same goes for marriage; there is nothing wrong with telling your spouse they did a great job. My husband is great at cleaning, and I let him know. Learn to appreciate the good things in life, where you are, and where you’re going; learn to be content. Marriage is wonderful, but it takes work. Don’t envy someone else’s marriage, envy your own, and what you and your spouse have accomplished together. You will be surprised at how amazing you are.

Until next time

Love being Me

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Companionship

Finally, we have concluded ten things men want from their wives. Last but not least: Companionship.

 Hopefully, if you have been married an appreciable amount of time, your husband is not only your lover but also your friend. Being companions and friends throughout the years require that you find new experiences and spend quality time together. Spending time together will help your marriage strengthen as you both explore outside interest.  Sharing your interest will make for exciting conversation when you come together. (It makes great pillow talk.)

 Moreover be mindful, marrying your best friend means not taking him for granted and making small sacrifices to please each other.  I did like to watch baseball; however, if my husband asks me to watch a game, no hesitation. Also, wives practice using the gentle words and show your appreciation for him daily, remember he chose you to be his wife.

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Acceptance

I believe the only person that can change someone is God and yourself. No one can change anyone and you have to want to change. Wives don’t try to change your husband into who you want him to be, this will not work. You should embrace the man you married and not change him, but grow with him. Men are very displeased when their wives try to change them, so (Stop). If for health reason then yes, but if not learn to love who he is and he will do the same with you. We all have flaws, but we love them anyway. There is nothing wrong with being different and your relationship is just that, different. My husband accepts me for me and I accept him for who is. We make a great pair…how about you.

Sometimes when you try to change someone, usually it’s you that need the change

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Have Fun

It is important to keep the fun in your marriage. Spend as much time to together as possible. Nothing spells romance like a da8nite it doesn’t have to be expensive but it should be fun. Sometimes it is good to do something silly like going to a fun plex or painting with a twist together. Whatever you decide to do have fun; being silly with one another will definitely spill over into the bedroom once you reach home or not. Rekindle the fun you two had when you first got together, it doesn’t have to stop once you reach a certain age. My husband and I love to play games, sometimes we have a game night just the two of us. My favorite is Rock’em Sock’em old school…Fun is Fun. 

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Show off your Sexiness

Ladies don’t be afraid to show off your sexiness to your husband, that’s what he’s there for. When I get something new, I model it for my man. There is nothing like a new pair of shoes and a sexy piece of lingerie; men are visual and they want to see you in these sexy items. Moreover, what women that own a Fur coat has not dressed it up with something sexy or in their birthday suit to show it off. Men also love a woman that small delicious, when you invest in a new fragrance make sure it’s pleasing to your man. Spray the pillow so he will dream of you, your hair, and your body to let him know you belong to him. Sexy never gets old.

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Winter Time Cuddling

There is nothing I like more than cuddling up with my man on a cold winter day. Ron and I love lighting a cozy fire with a blanket on the floor and have an inside picnic. How Romantic. The both of us slip into our cozy PJ’s and relax. You don’t always have to go out of the house to have a great time. Pop in a good movie and use your imagination to fill in the rest of the evening, this will be the best time to have spontaneous sex. Don’t forget the popcorn or what ever’s your pleasure.

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Initiating

When it comes to you having sex, who is the initiator? Who makes the first move? If a request is made, should that person making the request be the initiator? Couples spend to much time deciding who is going to make the first move. However, the person with the request should at least set the mood so you know he or she is ready. Sitting in silence will only lead to frustration and no sex at all. If neither partner is willing to speak up, then no one will be getting the sex they desire. Communication is the key to great sex. Let your request be made known.

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De-STRESS YOUR LOVE LIFE

Being stressed can put a damper on your lovemaking, and distraction can be a turn off. Who wants to have sex when negative things are going on in your mind? When you come home unwind, relax have a glass of wine, a cup of tea, a hot bath; whatever it takes you to shake off the day. Relaxation leads to good conversation and then lovemaking. Don’t bring home your whole list of adverse things that happen during the day; maybe mention  one or two things then move on don’t linger. (Coming home and unwinding)