Category: THE 12 MYTHS OF SEX

If a Woman Does not Lubricate Sufficiently or a Man Does not become Erect immediately, He or She Is Not Aroused.

Sexual arousal does not necessarily manifest in immediate physical changes. Insufficient lubrication in a woman is probably a result of hormonal changes, not lack of desire. The situation of dryness can be corrected most times with lubricants (such as K-Y jelly), hormone creams, or hormone-replacement therapy that is natural and safe. In older man, desire does not always immediately translate into an erection. Some men report feeling desire throughout their bodies rather than localized in their penises.

There are 12 MYTHS about Sex for those over 40, 50 and 60 with some Corresponding Truths. I will list one every week to digest and discuss. Enjoy

The Quality of Sex Declines for Both Men and Women as They Age.

Sexual responses are different, not worst as we age. It has been said a man may not have the erection he had at 21, however, he is capable of sustaining an erection longer and knows how to use a semi-erection to tease and stimulate his partner. By taking his time he can enjoy the slower buildup of sexual tension and use the added to bring his partner to orgasm before intercourse.  Added that men at mid-age find that giving satisfaction is as pleasurable as experiencing it.  In my experience, women are not comfortable taking the initiative and expressing what they desire sexually until after age 30 or early as age 40. As women age, their sexual assertiveness (BOLDNESS) increases as does her enjoyment of intercourse and her ability to have orgasms.

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