Myth 4

Female Desire Declines Dramatically after Menopause

Many women report an increased sexual desire after menopause. In one survey of women over 50 conducted by the Robert Wood Johnson Medical School in New Brunswick, New Jersey, a whopping 72 percent reported not complaints – including – declining desire about their sex lives, when postmenopausal women do have less interest in lovemaking, the causes are typically a hormone imbalance or negative thinking. These issues can be resolved. In addition, desire at any age is affected by any other factors, including health and fitness, relationship issue, and general stress. Ladies stop stress and have more Sex.

Myth 5

Once the Mere Sight of His Wife No Longer Arouses a Man, He Will Have Great Difficulty Making Love to Her

The older a man gets, the less likely he is to have an unassisted erection- in others words, to become erect merely by looking at this partner or another arousing female.  That does not mean he is not aroused or is not interested in making love to her. After aged 40 or 50, a man needs direct penile stimulation to get an erection. When mid-age men have difficulty making love, the Continue reading “Myth 5”

Let Your Request Be Made Known

express what we what. Now express it.

Ask your partner for what you want. Just as your self-esteem rises when you ask for a raise, wives this is your husband. You should be able to request what you want in the bedroom. What are your desires, more oral pleasure, longer foreplay, and a variety of positions? Let your request be made known. Share with your partner y. Having a husband or wife means, you get to share with one another and learn what you both like. It takes time to learn what you like in the bedroom, don’t be shy, this is where you both can express yourselves.

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Boredom

Remove Boredom From Your Life: Boredom more than anything else dulls desire. To remove boredom from your daily existence, you have to live which counter-phobic life, which means working against your fears rather than giving them

Here a five suggestion:

Acknowledge Your Fears

Eliminate Guilt

Stop Being So Cautious

Push Back Your Personal Boundaries’

Take More Risks

Myth 3

Erection Problems Are Inevitable and Incurable Without Medical Treatment

Men often interpreter natural physiological changes as being problems, they think they are not hard enough because they are not as hard as they were when they were younger. By the time a man is in his 40, nearly every man will or has experienced a bout of erectile dysfunction, and fear the erotic disappointments will inevitably become regular occurrences. However, healthy, physically and sexually active men can continue to achieve erections into old age without medical intervention. Most erectile dysfunctions are sometimes caused by illness, medication OTC and prescribe drugs as well as alcohol abuse.   Therefore, men stay healthy and have more sex.

Confidence

When a woman feels confident about herself she will feel confident about her sexuality. Ladies take the time to love you so that you can love on your partner the same way. Enjoy you.

Myth 2

If a Woman Does not Lubricate Sufficiently or a Man Does not become Erect immediately, He or She Is Not Aroused.

Sexual arousal does not necessarily manifest in immediate physical changes. Insufficient lubrication in a woman is probably a result of hormonal changes, not lack of desire. The situation of dryness can be corrected most times with lubricants (such as K-Y jelly), hormone creams, or hormone-replacement therapy that is natural and safe. In older man, desire does not always immediately translate into an erection. Some men report feeling desire throughout their bodies rather than localized in their penises.

Myth 1

There are 12 MYTHS about Sex for those over 40, 50 and 60 with some Corresponding Truths. I will list one every week to digest and discuss. Enjoy

The Quality of Sex Declines for Both Men and Women as They Age.

Sexual responses are different, not worst as we age. It has been said a man may not have the erection he had at 21, however, he is capable of sustaining an erection longer and knows how to use a semi-erection to tease and stimulate his partner. By taking his time he can enjoy the slower buildup of sexual tension and use the added to bring his partner to orgasm before intercourse.  Added that men at mid-age find that giving satisfaction is as pleasurable as experiencing it.  In my experience, women are not comfortable taking the initiative and expressing what they desire sexually until after age 30 or early as age 40. As women age, their sexual assertiveness (BOLDNESS) increases as does her enjoyment of intercourse and her ability to have orgasms.

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The Best Years of Your Sex Life

I started off this blog with eight ways a wife could be a good lover to her husband or partner. In my opinion, men don’t get enough attention in the bedroom as they should. However, with this blog, I hope that will change.

Sex changes as we age, and that is good news; that means we mature. When we are younger we have performance anxieties, and many common sex problems occur far more than when we are older. Men and women are still alive, vital and sexy at age 40, 50, 60 and beyond; and they’re sexually confident and experienced, too. As long as we don’t lose our zest for life we won’t miss our desire for lovemaking.

I find many couples ages 40, 50, 60 are on the threshold of a fuller, richer and more mature sex life than they have enjoyed in the past.

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