Don’t be afraid to walk around the house naked, you and your mate should have a naked day. Clothes are over rated so take them off and be naked. I know things don’t look the same as they use too when you were young, (So what) – it’s OK it’s just the two of you. Make breakfast in the nude, watch TV; you have the entire house to yourself, show off a little. We love being naked having no clothes on is romantic, you have nothing to hide. Bear it all.
Myth 11
Oral Sex Is the for the Very Young
According to studies cited by the Janus Report on Sexual Behavior and The Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex, couples are more likely to have oral sex at 40 than at 20. Younger people have more inhibitions about performing sex acts, including fellatio and cunnilingus. They are also more likely to be unsure of their erotic skills and hold back because of performance anxiety, something older women suffer, too.
MYTH 10
Sex Has to End in Orgasm
Both men and women can find satisfaction in lovemaking the does not end in orgasm. Sometimes couples are tired or rushed, yet want to kiss, caress, and fondle each other. Orgasm is not a goal that must be reached each time. In fact, some mature lovers deliberately make love without orgasm to intensify the experience when they do have one. I agree.
MYTH 9
Men and Women with Heart or Other Problems Should Avoid Sexual Activity
A study of 1600 people conducted at Boston’s New England Deaconess Hospital found that the risk of a heart attack during sex was roughly equivalent to the risk of a heart attack from getting out of bed in the morning. According to Dr. Robert Butler, former director of the National Institute on Aging; heart attacks during intercourse account for less than 1 percent of all coronary deaths and 70 percent of those occur during extramarital liaisons when the stress level can be assumed higher. Sexual activity is actually good for all of us. Lovemaking has many physical and psychological benefits, from reducing stress to preventing depression (So have has much Sex as you like.)
Make Your Lovemaking Playful
Do not be in such a hurry to have sex, slow the moment down and enjoy each other. Do not be afraid to touch, rub, and caress this adds to your pleasure. Slowly remove each other’s clothing, this will add to the seduction. For me kissing is the best way to ignite the fire, and a nice long kiss will whet your appetite for intercourse. Do not be afraid to bring food into the bedroom, feeding one another and sharing food is very passionate, you will be surprised to find certain foods enhances and heightens your pleasure. (chocolate, strawberries, cream etc.) Another tip that will enhance your romanticism is to Continue reading “Make Your Lovemaking Playful”
MYTH 8
Youthful Orgasms Are More Intense
Too many of us believe that sex is only for the young and beautiful. A corollary of this belief is the assumption that sexual ecstasy is most intensely experienced by the young. Not true. Women often report that orgasms are more intense after the age of 40. Although men may notice that the force of their ejaculation is not as strong in mid-age as in youth, they will also feel a more diffuse orgasm in other parts of the body, including the entire genital area, not merely the head of the penis.
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Husbands and Wives make it a point to date. Dating rekindles the passion and romance in your relationship. Every 7 days going on a Date, every 7 weeks stay a night at a hotel, and every 7 months take a mini or long vacation….whatever you do have fun and enjoy each other while doing it**Explore and find out what may happen.♥
Myth 7
Women Peak in their 30’s
For most women, sex does get better in their 30’s, but their level of responsiveness does not plateau and then level off in later years as many have mistakenly believed. However, women increased the ease with their bodies and confidence in lovemaking continues to grow throughout life. In addition, a woman’s orgasmic capacity, including the ability to have multiple orgasms, is undiminished by age. I totally agree.
Talk! Talk! Talk! Talk! Talk!
Communication is so basic but so necessary. Neither one of you can read each other’s mind during sex, so speak up if there is something that you want that he is not delivering. There are tons of ways to verbalize it if you feel a little tongue-tied, like “It’s so hot when you…” or “I’d love it if you’d try…” expressing what you feel will allow you to get what you want. Don’t’ be scared
Learn Something New
When couples get married at some point in the relationship, they stop having sex; however, we get married to have sex and have lots of it. The more sex you have the more two become one. How can you become one without having sex?
If you are having a sexless marriage, it should not be ok. We can always find ways to improve on something, whether it is learning a new hobby, learning a new skill or Continue reading “Learn Something New”