Don’t think you have to be the world’s greatest lover to have great sex. Know what‘s pleasurable for you and your partner. Don’t think you have to keep up with what others are doing or reading; don’t think everything has to be perfect. My husband and I have read many books to enlighten us and obtain information not to try to perform every trick in the book. Lovemaking is an art and is perfected over time with you and your partner. (Perfected not perfect) You and your partner’s style of lovemaking are unique to each other and should be satisfying to you both. Lovemaking is not a race again it’s an Art, and everyone knows art is appreciated over time.