When it comes to you having sex, who is the initiator? Who makes the first move? If a request is made, should that person making the request be the initiator? Couples spend to much time deciding who is going to make the first move. However, the person with the request should at least set the mood so you know he or she is ready. Sitting in silence will only lead to frustration and no sex at all. If neither partner is willing to speak up, then no one will be getting the sex they desire. Communication is the key to great sex. Let your request be made known.
