Being stressed can put a damper on your lovemaking, and distraction can be a turn off. Who wants to have sex when negative things are going on in your mind? When you come home unwind, relax have a glass of wine, a cup of tea, a hot bath; whatever it takes you to shake off the day. Relaxation leads to good conversation and then lovemaking. Don’t bring home your whole list of adverse things that happen during the day; maybe mention one or two things then move on don’t linger. (Coming home and unwinding)
Sex Talk for Married Couples
